Thursday, June 23, 2016

No New Dvar Torah This Week

Due to unforeseen circumstances, there is no new Dvar Torah this week. Please click here for last year's Dvar Torah for Parshas Shelach, or, for CHU"L, click here for a Dvar Torah for Parshas Behaloscha.
We will return, b'ezrat Hashem, next week with a brand new Dvar Torah.

Shabbat Shalom!

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Thursday, June 16, 2016

Dvar Torah for Parshas Behaloscha

Due to the eighth day of Pesach falling out on Shabbos, Eretz Yisrael and CHU"L will be one parsha off for the next few weeks. I will be following the schedule in Eretz Yisrael. Click here for a Dvar Torah for this week's parsha in CHUL, Parshas Nasso.


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       Parshas Behaloscha ends with the story of Miriam being stricken with tzara’as. After questioning if Moshe’s actions were really commanded to him by Hashem or simply his own personal stringencies, Hashem gives Miriam tzara’as as a result of having slandered Moshe. As the pasuk says, “פֶּ֣ה אֶל־פֶּ֞ה אֲדַבֶּר־בּ֗וֹ וּמַרְאֶה֙ וְלֹ֣א בְחִידֹ֔ת וּתְמֻנַ֥ת יְהֹוָ֖ה יַבִּ֑יט וּמַדּ֨וּעַ֙ לֹ֣א יְרֵאתֶ֔ם לְדַבֵּ֖ר בְּעַבְדִּ֥י בְמשֶֽׁה“With him I speak mouth to mouth; in a vision and not in riddles, and he beholds the image of Hashem. So why were you not afraid to speak against My servant, Moshe?” (Bamidbar 12:8).
       Moshe and Aharon immediately davened for her sake. Hashem responds that normally a person receives tzara’as for seven days for speaking against a human, but by speaking against Moshe, He considered it as if His own honor had been smeared! Therefore, it would be fitting for Miriam to be stricken for fourteen days, double the normal amount. However, when learning out a law from another, you can only learn out as much as the original law requires; so Miriam wouldn’t be punished for more than seven days. (See Rashi to 12:14.)
       How come Hashem needs to explain how Miriam really should be punished more stringently than usual and then show how He’s “going easy” on her? Why can’t He just tell Moshe that He won’t cure her now, he needs to wait at least seven days like everyone else who gets tzara’as?
       Rabbi Yaakov Kaminetzky takes a closer look at the two tefillos of Moshe and Aharon. Aharon davens first, and addresses his prayer to Moshe. As the pasuk says, “וַיֹּ֥אמֶר אַֽהֲרֹ֖ן אֶל־משֶׁ֑ה בִּ֣י אֲדֹנִ֔י“And Aharon said to Moshe, ‘Please my master” (12:11). Moshe, on the other hand, davens directly to Hashem. Aharon figured that Miriam had committed a sin בין אדם לחברו, between man and his friend. Therefore, he asked Moshe for forgiveness, figuring there was no need to involve Hashem other than to ask for Miriam to be cured. Moshe immediately forgave her and davened to Hashem to heal her immediately since he was not offended by her comments. However, Hashem wanted to show them that this was not enough.    
       Man by himself is insignificant, no different than any animal. While we are commanded to respect and care for animals, there is no obligation to ask their forgiveness if we mistreat them. However, there is a mitzvah to ask forgiveness from humans for mistreating them and to keep trying until they acquiesce. The reason why this is true is because humans are created בצלם אלוקים, in the image of God. When dealing with humans, we must respect them as if we were dealing with Hashem Himself. This is why there are separate laws that deal with בין אדם לחברו, how people treat each other.
       Hashem was making a point to Moshe; Miriam’s sin was not just against him, it was against Hashem! Therefore, if the punishment for slandering a human is seven days, since she slandered Hashem as well, she should get another seven days! And even if Moshe forgave her, she would still have another seven days coming. So Hashem responds to Moshe that really He is going easy on Miriam, she should be punished for fourteen, and in the end she will only be punished for seven.
       Working on our בין אדם לחברו skills, and not speaking Lashon Hara in particular, is a difficult challenge. Many people we meet don’t seem worthy of our respect or consideration and we struggle to give it to them. However, it’s easier for us to recognize that we shouldn’t insult Hashem. By realizing that every human is the image of Hashem, we can appreciate that every person is worthy of our respect and admiration. With that attitude, we can enhance our בין אדם לחברו skills to where there will be a strong connection throughout the entire Klal Yisrael!

Shabbat Shalom!


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Friday, June 10, 2016

Dvar Torah for Parshas Nasso

       Due to the eighth day of Pesach falling out on Shabbos, Eretz Yisrael and CHU"L will be one parsha off for the next few weeks. I will be following the schedule in Eretz Yisrael. Click here for a Dvar Torah for this week's parsha in CHUL, Parshas Bamidbar.


       As the longest parsha in the Torah, you would expect Parshas Nasso to have no shortage of topics to choose from. While it may not have as many as you would think, it does contain some important laws. One of them is the mitzvah of Nazir.
       At different points in time and for a variety of reasons, a person feels a necessity to focus themselves on spirituality by separating themselves a little bit from this world. For someone who desires to cut himself from worldly pleasures, the Torah gives specific guidelines to follow. He cannot cut his hair, become tamei from contact with a dead body, or drink wine or partake of any grape products for a period of thirty days. This person is known as a Nazir.
       “לְאָבִ֣יו וּלְאִמּ֗וֹ לְאָחִיו֙ וּלְאַ֣חֹת֔וֹ לֹֽא־יִטַּמָּ֥א לָהֶ֖ם בְּמֹתָ֑םTo his father and his mother, to his brother and his sister, he shall not defile himself if they die” (Bamidbar 6:7). As we mentioned, a Nazir, like a Kohen, is not allowed to come into contact with a dead body; this includes even his closest relatives, his parents and siblings. Rabbi Yaakov Kaminetzky points out that in regards to the Kohen, the Torah includes his children on the list of relatives regarding tumah; however, by the Nazir, the Torah does not mention them. Why not?
       He explains with an original idea, that perhaps for the most part, only younger people became Nazirs, in which case, they wouldn’t have any children so the Torah doesn’t have to mention them. Why would this be the case?
       The Torah doesn’t encourage unnecessary restrictions, even when they potentially lead to higher levels of spirituality. The reason why Hashem gave us a physical existence is so we can take the physical aspects of this world and imbibe them with spirituality. For example, making Kiddush on wine gives it a certain degree of holiness. When discussing the laws of a Nazir, the Torah doesn’t give any reason why you should become one, it just tells us the laws, seemingly encouraging us to set these restrictions for ourselves. Why would the Torah do this and what would prompt someone to accept upon themselves these unnecessary restrictions?
       The classic reason given by Chazal is that we find these pesukim written directly following the story of the Sotah, a lady who performed a sinful and unholy act. At her ‘trial’ in the Beis Hamikdash, we place her in a degrading state while she awaits her fate. The reason we do this is so someone passing through the Beis Hamikdash on that day should see her and where the overindulgence in physical pleasures can lead a person. That person should go home with a renewed conviction to commit himself to controlling his desires. The Torah gives him a plan of action to follow; he becomes a Nazir.
       The older you get, the harder it becomes to change your ways. After being set in your ways for so long, acting differently seems too difficult or even unnecessary. However, the youth, who have not yet become so set in their ways, find it easier to change their behavior, and even cut themselves off from certain physical pleasures for a while! Therefore, even though an older person can certainly become a Nazir, it was much less common. We have a rule that the Torah speaks the language of the common man; since the concept of Nazir would apply mostly to younger people with no children, the Torah spoke to those people and didn’t include children in the list of relatives.
       This offers us a tremendous mussar lesson heading into the holiday of Matan Torah, every day when we follow a path, that path becomes more engrained within us. Which one will we follow? It only gets harder to change, so let’s start now before it’s too late. Hopefully by the time we reach old age, we won’t need to use the power of a Nazir to work on ourselves, it will already be truly embedded within.


Shabbat Shalom!   


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Friday, June 3, 2016

Dvar Torah for Parshas Bamidbar

       I was mistaken last week when I said CHU"L had caught up with Eretz Yisrael. There will still be a few more weeks until we are caught up. In the meantime, click here for a Dvar Torah for Parshas Bechukosai.



       Parshas Bamidbar begins the portion of the Torah when we follow Bnei Yisrael through the desert on their journey to Eretz Yisrael. So many of our favorite Torah stories are found in the next few parshiyos, but before we get to those, this week’s parsha begins discusses the traveling process.
       The parsha begins with the appointment of the Nesi’im, the leaders of each tribe. These men represented their respective tribes to Moshe, and by extension, Hashem, for any necessary tasks. The first task is the next idea listed in the parsha, a census of the nation. Rashi at the beginning of the parsha explains that like a man with a precious object, Hashem was constantly counting Bnei Yisrael because they were (and are) so special to him. Any excuse He had, He would make a census. In this case, the excuse was the inauguration of the Mishkan and resting His Shechinah among the People.
       While counting the nation, Hashem instructed Moshe to save the counting of Shevet Levi for later and not to count them together with the rest of the nation. This was in recognition of their special status as Kohanim and Leviim, the ones with the most access to Hashem through their responsibilities in the Mishkan, and later on in the Beis Hamikdash. While the rest of the nation was counted only from the age of twenty, Shevet Levi was counted starting from a month old. Even with this ‘advantage,’ they still only numbered 22,000 people; much less than even the smallest tribe.
       The parsha ends with the Leviim’s responsibilities of transporting the Mishkan. There were three families of Leviim: Gershon, Kehas, and Merari. Each family was responsible for transporting a different part of the Mishkan. This week’s parsha discusses Kehas’ responsibilities. They were in charge of moving all the special utensils, namely, the Aron, Shulchan, Menorah, both Mizbe’achs, and all the utensils that were used together with them.
       The pesukim go into detail as to how they were prepared for travel; the Ramban explains these different requirements and how they were specific to each special piece.
       The Aron was first covered by the Paroches, the curtain that separated the Kodesh Hakedoshim, the room that housed the Aron, from the rest of the Mishkan. Then, a covering of Tachash skin was placed over that. Finally, a cloth made of blue wool was placed over it, and the Aron was ready for traveling. The Paroches was used to make sure the Aron was continually kept out of sight from everyone. (The only person who could look at the Aron was the Kohen Gadol, and then, only on Yom Kippur.) The Tachash skin was used as protection from the rain. And while Tachash skin was used as the outer layer for the other utensils, the extreme holiness of the Aron called for a more honorable outer cover; in this case, a blue cloth was used to remind all onlookers of the holy and pure heavens.
       The Lechem HaPanim, the Show Bread was kept on the Shulchan at all times, even during travel. The other utensils used in conjunction with the Shulchan were also kept together with it during travel. The table with the bread was first covered with a layer of blue woolen cloth; the utensils were placed on top of this cloth and covered by a red woolen sheet which was then covered by the Tachash skin. Because of the holiness and importance of the bread, they were kept separate from the other utensils. Once again, blue was used to signify its’ holiness. The utensils were then covered by a red cloth to signify kingship, since the Shulchan represented Hashem’s rule over the world.
       The Menorah and the Golden Mizbe’ach were also covered with blue cloth under the Tachash skin. Finally, the Copper Mizbe’ach was covered with a purple cloth, a deeper shade than the Shulchan’s, to symbolize the blood of the many korbanos that were brought on it, which granted forgiveness to Bnei Yisrael.



Shabbat Shalom!  



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